The author of this blog is classy.

Not.

Or so says my good (best) guy friend.

Because: (and I want all of your feedback on this, do you agree/disagree with me, or my friend? And why)(wow, that sounds like an essay test question, haha)

I found out that a mutual friend of ours (mine and HG's) was wiling to pass on the message/hint that I liked him. And said mutual friend is a guy, so that is a bonus, because it won't be a chick who goes "OHMYGOD HG! Jessica totally thinks you're dreamy! Do you like her!?!?"

Now, in my world (yes, I live in a separate world) that is perfectly acceptable. I think it gives with the liker and the likee a kind of safety net. If the likee says no, the liker does not have to experience the rejection first hand, and the liker does not have to feel bad or pressured by the liker asking them.

And if the likee does like the liker, then there isn't much problem, the message gets back to the liker, and everything goes relatively smoothly.

So, here's my question: is it not classy/weird of me to think that this is an acceptable practice? I mean, people do it all the time, right?

Right?!